In my experience over the past couple of years in finding new homes for elders in larger communities which care for their needs, I have found that no matter how aging has affected their physical ability to care for oneself, Valentine’s Day is still in the heart of many. Events are planned with decorations and […]

If your loved one is in need of care, he or she is likely dealing with loss — physical loss, mental loss, the loss of independence. Accepting care might means opening up your private life and adjusting to new routines. As a result, your loved one might feel frightened and vulnerable, angry that he or […]

According to AARP nearly 90% of seniors want to stay in their homes as they age, which is no surprise, but the most substantial risk and threat to living independently at home are falls. Falls lead many seniors to the emergency room which could then cause the senior to require hip surgery, broken arms, legs […]

After visiting with a loved one, have you experienced that uneasy feeling of something not being quite right with their living situation such as a much younger friend/relative, out of the ordinary, staying longer than intended to get back on their feet? Your loved one making excuses for time or money spent on the other […]

According to AARP nearly 90% of seniors want to stay in their homes as they age, which is no surprise, but the most substantial risk and threat to living independently at home are falls. Falls lead many seniors to the emergency room which could then cause the senior to require hip surgery, broken arms, legs […]

Feeling powerless is the number one contributor to burnout and depression. And it’s an easy trap to fall into as a caregiver, especially if you feel stuck in a role you didn’t expect or helpless to change things for the better. But no matter the situation, you aren’t powerless. This is especially true when it […]

If you find yourself as your mom or dad’s caregiver, it’s OK to grieve the loss of your old parent-child relationship. The important thing is that you’re now there for your parent, honoring the sacrifices they once made for you. To do this successfully (while sidestepping as many emotional landmines as possible): Participate in open […]

The holiday season can be depressing if you are feeling alone or dispirited and everyone else seems joyous and happy. But like you, many others have no friends or family nearby, or feel disconnected or estranged from the people around them—or else I wouldn’t be writing this post! Family ties, like friendships, are often imperfect. […]

“For those of us caring for a family member, the holidays can be difficult. Meal planning, shopping and arranging festivities are added to our daily tasks. Respite care provides much needed support when we are busy with all of the holiday planning. Phil Chandler, President of Right at Home of Ventura County, tells the interesting […]

People set goals all the time. Sometimes they succeed in achieving those goals, sometimes they don’t. Regardless of what your elderly loved ones goals are, they have to be realistic about them. It is therefore important to ensure the goals your elderly loved one sets are achievable whether they are in a assisted living community […]